Does we have to eat something to be happy, or we have to do something to be happy?
No it is nothing like that. It is just the way of life we live. Does we make the things that we love and like that is happiness measured by. Yes it is a well known truth that happiness is coming from within us, nobody else can make us happy.
Lets start, lets find how others need to be happy?
Everybody thinks that he needs something different to be happy. Someone want to sleep longer, someone wants to have some kind of vehicle, someone wants to have some kind of job. But there is a lot of people that they have everything and they are not happy. When we make some goal we think that it would make us happy, but the happiness is lacking, and we are wondering why we aren't happy.
First to be happy, you have to decide to be happy, yes you have to say to your self when you get up in the morning today I am going to be happy, no matter what, everything that is going to be today will have no power to take the happiness from me. When we are starting the day with that attitude we are making the things to arrange around us that will help us to be and feel happy.
Other things that is making us happy are little more important, but is also significant.
We have to do and work the things we like. We must not make compromises with things that are make us happy. If you work something that is making you nervous, and you are starting to loose your self in that work, then you are not happy. When you must to go to your office, and you feel agitated, than you have to change something, because even if you are making millions, you are feeling that something big is missing from your life. You must wake up and figure out what is missing, you must find what is making you happy, that is filling your life with energy, and turn night in to a day.
Compromises that we are making with the things that we love, are making our life poor and cheap, and we are starting to feel empty, we are starting to feel betrayed by our self, we are starting to hate our self, because we can not make the decision that will lead us to our happiness. We are all finding excuses for leaving our dreams, because we think that they are unreachable, far from us. That is our biggest mistake. We even don't try to make our dreams true and we are already giving up from them. What is making this to our happiness? How are going to feel it about in 20 or even 30 years? You are going to hate your self for not trying and you are going to hate everyone because you hate you self. What are going to be with you? You are going to become something that you have hated, you become frustrated old man that is tired from living someone else life.
Why the people always flee from their dreams, why they abandon their happiness for some work, they even don't like? Why most of the people do things they hate, and that are making them miserable?
Because, they think that they will be silly if they are going after they dreams, why even bother if it going to be disaster. This is a one of the biggest mistakes that are made from the most of people, they are running away from their happiness because they don't want to fail. Fear from failing is keeping them on the ground, is keeping them away from the happiness and are entering in the zone of lethargy, zone where they are going mechanically to work and live their lives with no enthusiasm, so they are hardly wait to finish the day, the week, the year and the life, empty life without a spark and energy.
Live the life like you want, chase your dreams, work the work you like, love the person you love, be where you want to be, live the way you want to live, and do not listen no one, at least do not listen the person which is give up from chasing their dreams, because he will tell you that chasing dreams is bad business. What he knows, only quitting, and in quitting he is the best. I choose to be successful, to live my dreams and not to quit, a choose to be happy, to be alive to be my own person.
Contact me if you want to be happy, if you want to change something in your life.
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