WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION THAT EVERY PERSON SHOULD ASK THEMSELVES

My dear readers, first I want to thank you for following me and I see great interest from many of you to change the current situation, and how to live more fulfilled lives . I apologize for my bad English, so I can fully convey my thoughts precisely, and sometimes can lose the significance. I hope I will help you in every possible way to improve your life, and if you succeed, even by one percent to make you feel better, happier and fulfilled, that for me is a huge success. Therefore I will continue with perseverance to try helping all who so wish from me, while I will enjoy it helping everyone becoming happy.

But move on. The first and main thing to know is your starting point, from where to start the changes in your lives. How will you determine the starting point? What you are lacking in life? What can I change,while it will improve all other aspects of my life? Do you live your life the way you want? Have you fulfilled your dreams? Why every morning I find it difficult to get up and start the day? And at the end the most important question, which you should asking yourself daily, just to know whether it is the right path, and that question is: AM I HAPPY.

It is the first and the only step you need to do for start, if you plan to make a better life All the other steps and things that you should take to improve some aspect of your life will be easier if you are honest with yourself about this issue. 3 years ago I wrote a post "How to be happy," seeing from the current point of view, is too superficial and the problems were touched superficially, while not giving guidance on how to correct them,I apologize for that and now I will fix it. Really would like to help any who would like to be happier, it will be a great pleasure to me.
What does it mean AM I HAPPY?
Each my day starts with a song, there is nothing difficult for me today and with ease I finish everything required of me today. To live my dream. Every thing I am doing, I'm doing with love. I have impeccable health. I am enjoying in the nature that surrounds me.To love yourself. To love all people that are around me. Helping others that need help. With excitement to wait any moment of the day and to expect wonderful moments throughout all day. Spend a wonderful time with the family and friends. At night I go to sleep excited about what awaits me tomorrow and falling asleep quickly with a smile on my face. Shortly so is felt happy man.

 

Most of you, my dear readers, will say, what is he speaking about, it's a nonsense? How can something to excites me in this fast and stressful world? How I can find time to enjoy in the nature when we do not have time to had a decent meal? How to enjoy with the family, when hardly you can see them? How to fall asleep with a smile, when I struggle with my bills, problems at work and restless sleep, or even worse I have no time to sleep.

How do I know this? Because I was at your place, without time, with health ruined , I looked 20 years older , I had no time to spend with my family, I hated myself for all that I become.,I hated my responsibilities, in one word I felt miserable.

How I changed all that?

First I felt a huge void in me, and did not know with what to fill that void, so I looked quick  formula for happiness , which made me even more wretched. But I didn't quit. I started to read a lot, especially books on motivation, books on success. Although I read a lot, I applied little of what I have learned, so it does not get to the desired change. The biggest change in my life happened when I touched the very bottom, when I was left alone, penniless and unhappy. From that day I made some decisions which today I adhere to.

And because I have come to that point, I opened this blog so that others do not have to pass that way. My life was literally "Per aspera ad astra" Through thorns to the stars. Follow the examples of those who did something, because it is wise, but there are people who do not want to learn from the examples of others, and consider true only the that has happened to them and only thus developed, and they are people who want through blood and pain to develop, which is much slower and more painful than to learn from someone who has survived it. Believe me I do not want anyone in the world to experience the things that have happened to me. However the decision is yours, but you are smart people and know what is best for you, and therefore act, and when you will, no one will condemn anyone for whatever you decide. 

Since we learned what is the most important issue in life, we know the foundation from which we should start. 

In my next post I will write about how to start practically applying things for being happier and how to change your life forever.

Greetings and have a wonderful day.